A Guide From David

Retirement and Identity

Retirement can bring freedom and also unsettle familiar ways of knowing who you are. The work may be finished while questions about usefulness, connection and what comes next are only beginning.

Look Beyond the Job Title

Work can organize a day, provide relationships and offer a familiar way to measure contribution. We can explore which parts you are glad to leave and which parts you miss. That helps distinguish the loss of a role from the larger question of your worth.

Allow More Than One Feeling

Relief does not rule out sadness or uncertainty. You may also discover that other people expect you to be happier, busier or more available than you feel. I want to understand your own experience instead of fitting retirement into a single positive or negative story.

Consider the Life You Want Now

We can revisit values and interests that may have received less attention while you were working. The next step does not have to become a new career or a major project. It may begin with how you want an ordinary week to feel and which relationships deserve more room.

A Question to Bring With You

What did your work give you besides a paycheck, and which of those things do you want in a different form now?

Frequently Asked Questions

Can retirement be difficult even when I chose it?

Yes. A wanted change can still involve loss, adjustment and questions about identity.

Do I need a new purpose before beginning therapy?

No. Making space to explore that question can be part of the work.

A free 20 to 30 minute consultation is a chance to ask questions and consider whether working together feels right.

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